lost & proFound

Writings on discovery through connection

Blog posts about Connecting and Discovering how to unlock our full potential and succeed in places we once could only dream about.

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The Profound Power of Pausing: Why Slowing Down Speeds You Up

In a world that celebrates hustle, grinding, and going the extra mile, the idea of slowing down can seem downright scandalous. We wear busyness like a badge of honor, equating productivity with worth. Yet, what if the secret to being more effective wasn’t doing more, but doing less?

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Lost in the Labels: Redefining Yourself Beyond Your Job Title

Have you ever been at a party, networking event, or even a family gathering when someone inevitably asks, “So, what do you do?” You freeze for a moment, calculating the most polished way to describe your job. You say something like, “I’m a marketing manager,” or “I’m a business coach,” and the conversation rolls on. But later, you catch yourself wondering—Is that really all I am?

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Are You Leading or Just Managing? The Fine Line That Could Be Hurting Your Team

I remember the moment I realized I had stopped leading and started merely managing. A once-enthusiastic team had become disengaged. Meetings felt more like status updates than strategy sessions. I was so focused on deadlines, checklists, and efficiency that I had lost sight of the bigger picture—motivating, inspiring, and empowering my team.

Like many leaders, I had fallen into the trap of management, mistaking oversight for impact, control for guidance. And I wasn’t alone. This is a common struggle in workplaces across industries, where leaders become so focused on tasks that they forget their true role—leading people.

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AI Won’t Replace Leaders—But It Will Expose the Bad Ones

The first time I sat in a meeting where AI-generated reports were being used to assess team performance, I felt a mix of excitement and unease. Here was a tool that could process vast amounts of data in seconds, identifying trends that would have taken weeks of manual work to uncover. But as the discussion continued, I noticed something else—some leaders in the room were visibly uncomfortable. Not because they feared AI would take their jobs, but because AI was making their shortcomings impossible to ignore…

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How Imposter Syndrome Can Actually Make You a Stronger Leader

I remember sitting in a high-stakes meeting, surrounded by executives who had been in the industry far longer than I had. My heart pounded. My hands felt clammy. I nodded along, hoping no one would see through me—that I wasn’t as confident as I appeared. That little voice in my head whispered, You don’t belong here. Any moment now, they’ll figure it out.

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Bridging the Leadership Gap: Why Hiring Leadership Coaches is Essential in Today's Corporate Landscape

The conference room was eerily quiet. Just a year ago, it buzzed with energy—executives strategizing, managers collaborating, and employees feeling guided toward a shared mission. Now, after a wave of layoffs and an exodus of key leaders, the company found itself at a crossroads. The remaining team members felt the weight of uncertainty, and those who remained in leadership roles were stretched thin, struggling to balance their expanded responsibilities. The organization wasn’t just experiencing a personnel shortage; it was suffering from a leadership void.

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Leading With Hope and Inspiration: Creating a Successful and Creative Workforce

In an era where uncertainty, rapid technological advancements, and global challenges shape our workplaces, the role of a leader has never been more critical. According to the Gallup 2025 Global Leadership Report: What Followers Want, one of the most powerful tools a leader can wield is hope. The report reveals that hope is the primary need of followers, with 56% of all leadership attributes linked to it—outpacing even trust (33%), compassion (7%), and stability (4%).

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Building Confidence in New Leaders: How to Cultivate Trust and Self-Belief

Leadership is not just about skills and experience—it’s about confidence. A new leader may have all the right tools, but without confidence, they can struggle to make decisions, inspire their teams, and lead with conviction. Too often, emerging leaders start their journey filled with self-doubt and insecurity, questioning their abilities instead of stepping into their roles with assurance. The key to their success lies in fostering a mindset of trust—trust in themselves, trust in their team, and trust in the process of leadership development.

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Time. What the principles of improvisation can teach us about connection.

Leadership is often thought of as a structured and deliberate practice—meticulously planned strategies, carefully crafted messaging, and well-defined organizational structures. While these elements are important, leadership at its core is about human connection, adaptability, and presence. Surprisingly, some of the most powerful lessons in leadership don’t come from business schools or corporate boardrooms but from the world of improvisational acting.

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