In a world that celebrates hustle, grinding, and going the extra mile, the idea of slowing down can seem downright scandalous. We wear busyness like a badge of honor, equating productivity with worth. Yet, what if the secret to being more effective wasn’t doing more, but doing less?

Have you ever been at a party, networking event, or even a family gathering when someone inevitably asks, “So, what do you do?” You freeze for a moment, calculating the most polished way to describe your job. You say something like, “I’m a marketing manager,” or “I’m a business coach,” and the conversation rolls on. But later, you catch yourself wondering—Is that really all I am?

I remember the moment I realized I had stopped leading and started merely managing. A once-enthusiastic team had become disengaged. Meetings felt more like status updates than strategy sessions. I was so focused on deadlines, checklists, and efficiency that I had lost sight of the bigger picture—motivating, inspiring, and empowering my team.

Like many leaders, I had fallen into the trap of management, mistaking oversight for impact, control for guidance. And I wasn’t alone. This is a common struggle in workplaces across industries, where leaders become so focused on tasks that they forget their true role—leading people.

The first time I sat in a meeting where AI-generated reports were being used to assess team performance, I felt a mix of excitement and unease. Here was a tool that could process vast amounts of data in seconds, identifying trends that would have taken weeks of manual work to uncover. But as the discussion continued, I noticed something else—some leaders in the room were visibly uncomfortable. Not because they feared AI would take their jobs, but because AI was making their shortcomings impossible to ignore…

I remember sitting in a high-stakes meeting, surrounded by executives who had been in the industry far longer than I had. My heart pounded. My hands felt clammy. I nodded along, hoping no one would see through me—that I wasn’t as confident as I appeared. That little voice in my head whispered, You don’t belong here. Any moment now, they’ll figure it out.